It's kind of a joke amongst dominants. We enjoy saying it to the S-types and then laughing maniacally. Generally it's about as honest as the saying that a true dominant always tests everything out on themselves first. Yeah right. *lol* If you're in MY dungeon, YOU are going to be the guinea pig. Not me.
So last weekend (Labor Day weekend) I had slave richard bent over and cuffed to my iron spanking bench. (It's adjustable, and it's extremely heavy; just right for those willful male slaves who think they're doing *me* a favor by submitting.) This wasn't a session I had planned; he just happened to be there, and I had just received two matching hot pink and black floggers the day before and I was dying to try them out! I can report that they are perfectly balanced and a joy to work with.
We began with just a light double flogging session, and things were going very well. As I got further into it, the energy of the power exchange was palpable. When I put the penis gag in his mouth to muffle his moans, I could tell he was already in sub space and I could do whatever I wanted. I did whisper that line to him (this is going to hurt me more than it's going to hurt you) but I'm not sure he even heard it where he was. : )
The flogging got harder and more intense. I alternated flogging with a riding crop and a "pussy whip". *lol* I was really getting into it, and kicked my heels off. (six inches on a five foot two domme can throw off your balance when you're deep into a scene.) After a few more intense blows I moved to the front to whisper a few more sweet nothings in his ear. (my voice is all it takes to excite him, but the whip is a fun extra) then quickly moved back to continue the torture.
That's when it hit me. Well...I hit it. I ran into the iron spanking horse with all the force my little toe next to the pinky toe could. I didn't even have a safeword. I am not the type of Mistress who uses yelling and cursing to get my point across, but this was a special exception. I said words that would make the raunchiest porn star blush, and some they probably haven't even invented yet!
I was able to finally uncuff Richard, and he helped me upstairs. I'm pretty sure I broke that toe, but there was no use going to the doctor, because there's nothing they can do about a broken toe. The next day my entire left foot was black and blue. (Kind of like Richard's ass) So I've been limping around all week, glaring at my new fall boots and wondering when I will get to break them in. (so to speak)
Every day gets better, and stairs are getting easier, but it will probably be quite some time before I whisper those words to another slave boy. The pain is still all too real...
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~Mistress Avarice
1-800-TO-FLIRT EXT: 0339-0707
A good erotic phone session is like a dance. It's a back and forth, a give and take. One way to guarantee an unsatisfying session is to answer my queries on your interests with "I like anything, Mistress" or "Please dominate me, Ma'am." When I ask you about yourself, tell me. Be open and honest. That will give me a basis with which to begin the seduction and, of course, your inevitable addiction. Tell me about the fact that you're a secret panty sniffer or you dress up in your wife's clothes every afternoon, knowing she could be home at any moment. Tell me about your boot fetish, and the fact that you fantasize about having your cock locked up in a leash, while you're paraded around in front of a group of giggling ladies. Seriously. Tell me.
Does that mean I'm going to be a service top and cater only to your whims? Silly boy…you should know better than that. I'm much too selfish, and it is, of course, all about me! An intelligent Domme learns everything about her submissive boys she possibly can. A good Domme knows things about her boys that they themselves may be unaware of. I take my time to learn these things and I keep them for future use. At times they will be used for your pleasure, and at other times, for mine. The two are not necessarily mutually exclusive, but, they definitely can be!
Another thing to keep in mind for an excellent phone session; remember to speak up! Don't call me when you have to whisper. It may be hot to call me while your wife is asleep next to you, or you're in your office and the secretary might hear, but if I can't hear your fantasy, I can't do it. If you want to have a "no talk" session (with just me doing the talking) set it up with me in advance. Otherwise we're both going to end up frustrated. I personally can't stand to be frustrated.
It's true that there's a lid for every pot, but it's also true that sometimes people just don't click. You may not like my voice (ridiculous notion, isn't it?!) or I may find your fantasy of being dressed up like a naked clown and having a pie in the face a tad silly. That's ok. For whatever reason, sometimes two people just don't have that connection. That doesn't mean serving is not right for you. You have to find the one you connect with. Two Dominas I can highly recommend as I know them personally as friends are Lady Koregan and Milena Rouge. They are smart, sexy, and in control at all times.
Finally, have fun with it. Erotic entertainment is just that: entertainment. Don't be afraid to laugh once in while. (not at me of course, but you know what I mean.) Just because I sometimes hurt you doesn't mean it can't be enjoyable as well. *lol* Be respectful and open to suggestions. Finally, when you call for your erotic phone session, sit back and enjoy the ride. Who knows where it might lead?
~Mistress Avarice
1-800-TO-FLIRT ext: 0339-0707
It's kind of a joke amongst dominants. We enjoy saying it to the S-types and then laughing maniacally. Generally it's about as honest as the saying that a true dominant always tests everything out on themselves first. Yeah right. *lol* If you're in MY dungeon, YOU are going to be the guinea pig. Not me. 