Pay Piggy or Wank-Addicted Poser?

I posted this on a forum discussion I was involved in, and since it's important to know yourself before you search for what you want, I thought I'd bring it over here and expand on it a bit.


The first thing any potential money slave needs to do is to make up your mind whether you actually are a money slave and want to live it, or if it's just some kind of wank fantasy for you. Either is acceptable, actually, but there's a difference on who you should contact.

If you just want the fantasy while your dick is hard, but don't want to follow through, call a phone sex operator who also does fin-dom. That way, you can talk about it (intelligently) and get what you want out of it, and the lady also gets (a little) something out of it.

If this is something you're serious about, there is nothing wrong with getting to know the fin-dom you're interested in, but sooner (rather than later) you're going to have to put your money where your mouth is. Basically, that means finding out from the lady you're interested in what you have to do to even be considered for a money pig position. Every lady has different requirements, and it's important to know what they are and follow them exactly if you hope to gain favor.

It's possible you don't know what you are; someone who gets off on the *idea* of being used by a sexy fin-dom, or someone who actually wants to live the lifestyle. If that is the case, you may want to try a combination of the above; making some phone calls to fin-doms who accept them, and dipping your toe into the water of actual financial domination. Wish Lists are always a good place to begin. Most ladies have wishes in all price points, so finances should not be an issue for most.

Please understand that fin-doms are inundated with the first type of guy (and many of the second) but until you prove that you are serious, it's difficult to sort the wheat from the chaff. We must assume, therefore that without proof to the contrary that most of you are chaff. (even if you're not) 

There are also, (alas) not unlimited hours in the day for us to get to know each and every one of you. We have to be selective in who we allow to take up our time and energy. Just as you should be selective when choosing what and who is right for you.

You will know when you've found the right one. Her voice will call to you above all others. Her eyes will hypnotize, her words entrance. You will find yourself thinking about her throughout the day when you should be concentrating on other things (such as work and your wife)

When you've found the right one and she has accepted you, and a true power exchange has begun, yes, you will still get off on the idea of spoiling a demanding sexy domina, but you will also genuinely need to please her. It will make you happy to satisfy her needs, even if you have to give up some of your wants.

I'd love to hear from some of you who have found the lady of your dreams or have in the past. I love to read about true (read monetary) power exchanges. They are the sexiest ones of all.

~Mistress Avarice1-800-TO-FLIRT Ext: 0340-5343